Parents should stop blaming themselves because there’s not a lot they can do about it. I mean the teenager (十幾歲的孩子) problem. Whatever you do or however you choose to deal with it, at certain times a wonderful, reasonable and helpful child will turn into a terrible animal.

I’ve seen friends deal with it in all kinds of different ways. One strict mother insisted that her son, right from a child, should stand up whenever anyone entered the room, open doors and shake hands like a gentleman. I saw him last week when I called round.Sprawling himself (懶散地躺) on the sofa in full length, he made no attempt to turn off the loud TV he was watching as I walked in, and his greeting was no more than a quick glance at me. His mother was ashamed.“I don't know what to do with him these days,” she said.“He’s forgotten all the manners we taught him.”

He hasn't forgotten them. He' s just decided that he' s not going to use them. She confessed (坦白) that she would like to come up behind him and throw him down from the sofa onto the floor.

Another good friend of mine let her two daughters climb all over the furniture, reach across the table, stare at me and say, “I don’t like your dress; it’s ugly.” One of the daughters has recently been driven out of school. The other has left home.

“Where did we go wrong?” her parents are now very sad.Probably nowhere much. At least, no more than the rest of that unfortunate race, parents.

71.This text is most probably written by ______.

A.a(chǎn) specialist in teenager studies             B.a(chǎn) headmaster of a middle school

C.a(chǎn) parent with teenage children              D.a(chǎn) doctor for mental health problems

72.The underlined word “it” in the second paragraph refers to ______.

A.the change from good to bad that ' s seen in a child

B.die way that parents often blame themselves

C.the opinion that a child has of his parents

D.the advice that parents want their children to follow

73.The boy on the sofa would most probably be described as ______.

A.lazy                   B.quiet                  C.unusual              D.rude

74.From the second example we can infer that the parents of the two daughters ______.

A.pay no attention to them                      B.a(chǎn)re too busy to look after them

C.have come to hate them                     D.feel helpless to do much about them

75.What is the author' a opinion about the sudden change in teenage children?

A.Parents have no choice but to try to accept it.

B.Parents should pay still sore attention to the change.

C.Parents should work more closely with school teachers.

D.Parents are at fault for the change in their children.

71.A 

解析:從文章第一段可以看出作者提出了自己的觀點(diǎn)Parents should stop blaming themselves,父母應(yīng)該停止對(duì)孩子的責(zé)備。然后第二、三段談了一些具體的例子,來說明責(zé)備對(duì)孩子所產(chǎn)生的影響。我們據(jù)此可以推斷出:他是一個(gè)研究青少年期的孩子問題的專家。別的選項(xiàng)均不符合文章的意思。

72.A 

解析:根據(jù)文章第二段的意思,可以知道父母有的時(shí)候的做法是錯(cuò)誤的。

73.D 

解析:根據(jù)文章第二段的意思,一位嚴(yán)厲的母親想把她的孩子培養(yǎng)成一個(gè)紳士,但是她孩子后來對(duì)客人的表現(xiàn)卻是很不禮貌的。

74.D

解析:第二個(gè)母親讓她的兩個(gè)孩子隨心所欲的做她們的事情,她對(duì)她們已經(jīng)失去了希望,后來一個(gè)孩子被趕出學(xué)校,另一個(gè)離家出走。

75.A 

解析:見文章最后一句的意思。

 

 

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