Everyone has good days and bad days.
Sometimes, you feel as if you’re on top of the world. But occasionally you feel horrible, and you lose things and you cannot focus on your schoolwork.
For more than 20 years, scientists have suggested that high self-esteem(自尊)is the key to success. Now, new research shows that focusing just on building self-esteem may not be helpful. In some cases, having high self-esteem can bring bad results if it makes you less likeable or more upset when you fail at something.
“Forget about self-esteem,” says Jennifer Crocker, a psychologist(心理學家)at the University of Michigan, US. “It’s not the important thing.”
Feeling good
Crocker’s advice may sound a bit strange because it is good to feel good about yourself.
Studies show that people with high self-esteem are less likely to be depressed, anxious, shy, or lonely than those with low self-esteem.w(w w.ks&5 u.c*o m
But, after reviewing about 18,000 studies on self-esteem, Roy Baumeister, a psychologist at Florida State University, has found that building up your self-esteem will not necessarily make you a better person.
He believes that violent and wicked(邪惡的)people often have the highest self-esteem of all. He also said: “There’s no evidence that kids with high self-esteem do better in school.”
Problems
All types of people have problems. People with high self-esteem can have big egos(自我)that can make them less likeable to their peers(同齡人),said Kathleen Vohs, a psychology professor at Columbia University.
People with high self-esteem tend to think more of themselves, Vohs says. People with low self-esteem are more likely to rely on their friends when they need help.
What to do
Researchers say it is best to listen to and support other people. Find positive ways to contribute to society. If you fail at something try to learn from the experience. “The best therapy(藥方)is to recognize your faults,” Vohs says. “It’s OK to say, I’m not so good at that, and then move on.”
It is concluded in the research that high self-esteem_________.
A. is not important at all
B. has taken on a different meaning
C. may not be the key to success
D. does not help you do better at schoolw(w w.ks&5 u.c*o m
According to the research, people with high self-esteem_________.
A. have better relationship with people of their own age
B. are more likely to become violent and wicked
C. tend to be proud and do not care much about others
D. often feel depressed and can’t focus on their work
The advice in the last paragraph is mainly for people___________.
A. with high self-esteem B. with low self-esteem
C. who are still at school D. who are good at everything
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根據所給首字母和中文提示完成各句,使句意通順。
【小題1】 The little boy held his mother’s hand ___________(牢牢地) when crossing the street.
【小題2】The people of that country are fighting for their__________ (獨立 ).
【小題3】 We already know who’s got the job but we haven’t yet been informed _______(官方的).
【小題4】 The ancient buildings in this area are well _________(保護).
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【小題7】His d_________ to his work led to his success and was respected by everyone.
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【小題9】We human beings should protect the environment and live in perfect h ________ with nature.
【小題10】 Don’t h_________ to tell me if you have any requests.
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單詞拼寫(滿分5分)
【小題1】It is hard to p him to stop smoking.
【小題2】Everyone who often exercises can b from it.
【小題3】Do you feel h when you’re often in difficulty.
【小題4】If you’re not satisfied with this book, I can r you another one.
【小題5】I will never f you for the rude words you said to me last night.
【小題6】He was a good worker who was (盡心盡力) to his family as well as his work.
【小題7】What’s your (態(tài)度) towards this practice.
【小題8】Do you feel (內疚的) when you have done sth that you shouldn’t do.
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A .drive B. absolutely C. construct D. leadership E. Policies
F.realization G. Pressures H.Definition I.Challenging J. particularly
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短文填詞(共10小題;每小題1分,共10分)
閱讀下面短文,根據以下提示:1)漢語提示,2)首字母提示3)語境提示,在每個空格內填入一個適當的英語單詞,并將該詞完整地寫在右邊相對應的橫線上。所填單詞要求意義準確,拼寫正確。
It is vital for us to have a good mood in our daily life.
If you o a good mood, you will find everything is wonderful 76.
in the world. Most (重要), you will have an optimistic effect 77.
the people around you. We all will live a harmonious and 78.
happy life. It is also good for your h . However,sometimes 79.
when you meet some (困難),when you quarrel with others 80.
or when you (無法)in doing something, you may have 81.
a bad mood. If so, you should get of it as fast as possible. 82.
As we all know, e has its two sides. So you should think more 83.
about bright side. We are sure that everything will be all right with 84.
time p by. Remember: Only you can make yourself happy. 85.
I hope that everyone has a good mood every day!
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