When you meet someone for the first time, you will form an impression in your mind of that person in the first moment. Your reactions to other people, however, are really just barometers (晴雨表) for how you perceive(理解) yourself. Your reactions to others say more about you than they do about others. You cannot really love or hate something about another unless it reflects something you love or hate yourself. We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike.
Therefore, you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate (闡明;照亮) more clearly your own feelings of self-worth. Conversely, you can view the people you judge negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself.
To survive together peacefully with others, you will need to learn tolerance. A big challenge is to shift your perspective from judgment of others to a lifelong exploration of yourself. Your task is to assess all the decisions, judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you can heal yourself and become whole.
Several days ago I had a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners. My first reaction was to judge him as rude and his table manners as annoying. When I noticed that I was judging him, I stopped and asked myself what I was feeling. I discovered that I was embarrassed to be seen with someone who was chewing with his mouth open and loudly blowing his nose. I was astonished to find how much I cared about how the other people in the restaurant perceived me.
Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you becoming like him. Just because I judge my lunch partner as rude does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him. In the same way, extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open.
  When you approach life in this manner, those with whom you have the greatest dissatisfactions as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors, guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality.
小題1:The purpose of the author writing this passage is to advise people to _______.
A.a(chǎn)void inappropriate manners
B.learn tolerance towards others
C.pay attention to others’ needs and feelings
D.judge others favorably in any case
小題2:The underlined word “objectionable” in Paragraph 4 has the closest meaning to __________.
A.discouragingB.disappointingC.disgustingD.disturbing
小題3:According to the passage, the following statements are all true except ______.
A.You can’t really love or hate others if they are similar to you.
B.We are easily attracted by someone who is similar to us.
C.Our first judgment of a person mostly comes from our personal opinion.
D.The moment we see a stranger, our mind forms an impression of that person.
小題4:It can be implied from the text that __________.
A.the writer’s first reaction to the man was to judge him as offensive
B.we will need to learn tolerance to co-exist with others
C.we shouldn’t focus on judging others but should constantly reflect on our own
D.the writer didn’t care about other people’s view of him

小題1:B
小題2:C
小題3:A
小題4:C

試題分析:本文講述了我們不喜歡的人的身上有很多我們不喜歡我們自己的地方。這些我們喜歡還是不喜歡的地方都反應(yīng)出我們自己的性格的很多方面,我們不要總是去判斷別人,而是要反思我們自己。
小題1:B 主旨大意題。本文講述了我們不喜歡的人的身上有很多我們不喜歡我們自己的地方。根據(jù)文章倒數(shù)第二段In the same way, extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open.以及文章最后一句guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality.都告訴我們要學(xué)會容忍和接納。故B正確。
小題2:C 推理題。根據(jù)第三段1,2行Several days ago I had a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners. My first reaction was to judge him as rude and his table manners as annoying.可知我認為他是一個在餐桌上沒有禮貌的人,他的餐桌禮儀是讓人厭惡的,和前面后面的annoying.是近義詞。故C正確。
小題3:A 推理題。根據(jù)文章第一段最后2行We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike.說明我們喜歡那些和我們有很多相似之處的人,不喜歡那些和我們有很多的差異的人。故A項的說法是錯誤的。
小題4:C 推斷題。根據(jù)倒數(shù)第二段前3行Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you becoming like him. Just because I judge my lunch partner as rude does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him.可知我們不要總是去判斷別人,而是要反思我們自己。因為在我們不喜歡的人的身上有很多我們的所不喜歡的自己的性格的反應(yīng)。故C正確。
點評:本文講述了我們不喜歡的人的身上有很多我們不喜歡我們自己的地方。這些我們喜歡還是不喜歡的地方都反應(yīng)出我們自己的性格的很多方面,我們不要總是去判斷別人,而是要反思我們自己。本文要求考生在閱讀理解整體語篇的基礎(chǔ)上,把握文章的真正內(nèi)涵。要吃透文章的字面意思,從字里行間捕捉有用的提示和線索,這是推理的前提和基礎(chǔ);要對文字的表面信息進行挖掘加工,由表入里,由淺入深,從具體到抽象,從非凡到一般,通過分析、綜合、判定等,進行深層處理,符合邏輯地推理。不能就是論事,斷章取義,以偏概全。要忠實于原文,以文章提供的事實和線索為依據(jù)。
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A.lastB.firstC.latestD.only
小題2:
A.goodB.miserableC.badD.wonderful
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A.raisedB.roseC.a(chǎn)roseD.a(chǎn)roused
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A.negativeB.supportiveC.positiveD.pessimistic
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A.a(chǎn)ppearedB.noticedC.seemedD.presented
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A.sellerB.buyerC.shopperD.a(chǎn)ssistant
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A.toldB.sharedC.heldD.spoke
小題8:
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A.closedB.turnedC.switchedD.forbidden
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If you were sick or upset about something the night before and couldn’t study, it would be better to talk with the teacher about this. And if you don’t have enough time to study for a test because of swim practice, you need to talk with your parents about how to balance swimming and school.
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He said I looked at him and asked if he had  31  said thank you to his boss for the  32  to earn a living. He answered he hadn’t. Then I asked him why he hadn’t tried being  33  to his boss.
He told us his  34  changed that night. He went back to work the next day with a thank-you card to his boss. He said I’d  35  him to look at life from different perspectives and express thanks.
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小題2:
A.smilingB.glaringC.knockingD.shouting
小題3:
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小題4:
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小題6:
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小題7:
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小題8:
A.heroB.stressC.likingD.trouble
小題9:
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小題10:
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小題11:
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小題12:
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A.rememberB.dislikeC.respectD.consider
小題14:
A.qualitiesB.personalitiesC.experiencesD.looks
小題15:
A.meantB.refusedC.chosenD.forgiven
小題16:
A.stillB.a(chǎn)ctuallyC.neverD.ever
小題17:
A.rightB.opportunityC.solutionD.a(chǎn)bility
小題18:
A.politeB.friendlyC.gratefulD.gentle
小題19:
A.lifeB.jobC.luckD.company
小題20:
A.orderedB.taughtC.a(chǎn)llowedD.persuaded

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科目:高中英語 來源:不詳 題型:閱讀理解

When I was a kid, I always used to wonder how in the world my father work outside in the winter without a coat. It could be minus 20 degrees centigrade and there’d be Dad, removing snow, or perhaps chopping some wood --- his coat thrown  aside--- wearing a shirt , a cap, and a pair of gloves.
“Aren’t you cold, Dad?” I’d ask. “No,” Dad would reply. “I’m not cold--- working too hard to be cold.”
Many times I wondered whether my father was an extremely tough man, or whether he was foolish.
One time when I was quite young, perhaps five or so, I went ice fishing with Dad. It was a bright, clear day—and bitterly cold.
After we’d been out on the ice for a little while, my feet started getting cold.
“Daddy, my feet are cold.” I said.
“Yeah, it’s cold out here today,” he replied.
“Tell you what,” he said. “Walk around. Make some circles in the snow. See how many different patterns you can make. That will get your feet warm.”
Now, I was just a little girl at the time but I remember thinking, “How in the world will walking around in the snow make my feet warm? Dad must be out of mind.
But he was my father, after all. I made circles in the snow. I made squares. Pretty soon I was having so much fun making patterns in the snow. I forgot about my feet being cold.
Now, all these years later, I know, too, from personal experience how my father was able to take his coat off and work outside in the winter wearing just a shirt, a cap and gloves. Because I do it, too. “Aren’t you cold?” my husband asked one winter day. “No,” I replied. “I’m not cold—working too hard to be cold.”
I hope my husband has decided I’m both tough and smart. But I guess quite a bit of the time he thinks I’m foolish.
Wherever Dad is in that great big farm in the sky—I’m sure he can’t help but smile whenever I take my coat off while I’m working outside in the winter.
小題1:When the author’s feet felt cold, her father advised her to              .
A.go home alone firstB.keep walking in the snow
C.draw pictures in the snowD.light a fire on the ice
小題2:Hearing her father’s advice, the author thought her father              .
A.forgettableB.warm-heartedC.crazyD.cruel
小題3:What might the author’s husband think of her?
A.ToughB.SmartC.BraveD.Foolish
小題4:The author’s purpose of writing this passage is to              .
A.remember her tough and smart father
B.show how her father cared about her
C.describe memories of her childhood
D.explain why her father loved her so much

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